When a substance or behavioural addiction takes hold—whether it involves drugs, alcohol, compulsive sexual behavior, pornography, problem gambling, or compulsive spending—it doesn’t just impact the individual. It ripples through the entire relationship, fracturing trust and leaving a trail of hidden trauma.
If you are the person caught in the loop of an addiction, you know the exhausting weight of living a double life. The secrecy, the shame, and the broken promises can make you feel entirely stuck in behaviors that no longer align with who you want to be. Breaking free requires more than just willpower; it requires a safe, non-judgmental space to deconstruct those deep-seated attachments and build an accountable path forward.
If you are the partner navigating the devastating aftermath of a discovery or disclosure, the pain is a profound shock to your system. It can feel like the ground beneath your feet has vanished, leaving you questioning your memories, your reality, and your worth. Your anger, fear, and hypervigilance are not overreactions—they are completely valid responses to betrayal trauma.
As a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), community substance use counsellor, and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) Candidate, I specialize in treating the painful intersections of chemical dependencies, behavioral loops, and partner betrayal. My practice is deeply trauma-informed and collaborative. Utilizing evidence-based approaches, specialized betrayed partner groups, and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) protocols, I provide a steady, grounded environment to help individuals halt destructive behaviors and help partners process acute emotional shock alongside a supportive community.
Recovery is not just about stopping a behavior or substance; it is about restoring safety, integrity, and truth to your life. Whether you are looking to break a compulsive cycle, find your footing after a partner’s disclosure, or establish healthy boundaries for your own healing, we will work at a pace that honors your story. Together, we can move past the cycle of crisis and begin building an authentic, stable foundation for your next journey.